How Do You Want To Frame Your Life?
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HOW DO YOU WANT TO
FRAME YOUR LIFE?
The
Frame of life simply can be expressed as a matrix of life that a person designs
for himself to live contently and its constituents include one’s deep emotions,
thinking, behavior patterns, priorities of life, customs, traditions, norms, values,
taboos etc.
When we often enjoy rain with a cup of tea, observing nature
and every drop of water keenly; nature makes our mind to think thousands of various
thoughts and imaginations and often this question arises:
Is
this the frame of life I really wanted to have?
Most
of the time we answer this as: everything is right but it is not exactly the
one that I framed for my life. This happens because man by his nature is never
ever satisfied and contented, no matter how healthy, wealthy and successful he might
be. Desires in a person is like an unsatisfying appetite.
I
personally believe that writing plays a dramatic role in shaping a person’s
life frame. Thoughts and reflections continuously flow through our minds all
the time – unexpressed, unspoken and unfiltered. Writing help us to express all
the unspoken queries, enhances our imaginations beyond what we can possibly
imagine.
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We have to see:
what are the parameters that affects our frame of life?
· DISCOVER MEANING AND PURPOSE OF
LIFE:
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Framing your life firstly involves understanding the fact
_ what life means to you?
What is the purpose of your life?
In this world of science
and technology everyone is in the state of much hurries. Our lives get busy with
day to day activities and responsibilities. Majority of population is just leading
an aimless life. But slowing down for a
while to pay attention on what are we doing in life, is really going to make us
feel happy and satisfied?
When do we feel fulfilled?
Paying attention
affects our actions. Notice the ways (trivial or great) you can bring any
positive change to your surroundings. Frame your life on values that are
important to you.
Take a pause and think what really matters to you? (like
helping someone, motivation for any specified goal or protecting the planet and
much more).
· HAPPINESS:
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Everyone
in this world wants to be happy and contented. It is very easy to link the idea
of happiness with the situations we are facing in. We make assumptions to ourselves
that if this happens, we will be much satisfied; but this is not the case most
of the time. Researches show that only a trivial portion of happiness depends
on someone’s favorable situation. So, what is the target issue? From where does
the real happiness comes from?
The
major problem lies in our perception and thinking. It depends on how we
perceive an event or a thing in our mind. Nobody is born happy. Part of
happiness also depends on our personality as well. Some people by their nature
are very jolly and cheerful. No matter how difficult the situation is, they remain
happy and optimistic. Their upbeat personalities and vibrant potentials automatically
make situations easier for them. So being happy, cheerful and working with higher
capabilities are much essential for designing a beautiful and satisfying frame
of your life.
· POSITIVE EMOTIONS:
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Positive
emotions are one of the solid pillars in constructing a successful and mesmerizing
frame of life. We all want to frame our lives in such a manner that is full of
contentment, happiness, success and luxuries. Positive emotions play a key role
in achieving these all. Positive emotions generate positive energies thus boosting
up our inner capabilities to perform every task in the best, organized manner. Knowing
how we have to control our negative thoughts and emotions in different troubling
life circumstances also enhances our abilities to stay positive.
· INTERESTS AND STRENGTHS:
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The activities and things we like to do most and we are
good at, are our interests and strength. We all have different strengths even
if we have not discovered them yet.
Strengths may involve things we are interested at and are
inclined to them like cooking, art and crafts, painting, singing, drawing, writing,
music etc. It also includes our skills and good qualities.
Our internal happiness and satisfaction proliferate when
we practice our interests and strengths which in turn assists in making our happy
frame of life.
· MOTIVATION:
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A successful frame of life involves high spirit
motivation of an individual. Motivation produces determination to achieve something,
boost up our energy levels. Our entire body is pumped with adrenaline making us
active and much focused towards our set goals. As success is achieved by high
performances _ motivation is seed to the fruit of success and prosperity.
Positive motivation improves our mental as well and make
us productive.
Research reveals that every person in the world with
successful frame of life has set a peculiar motivation that acts as guiding
steps to achieve goals.
Indulge yourself in motivated and positive community of
person to keep yourself targeted and prevent from betraying.
· GOOD RELATIONS:
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The people in our life matter a lot. Good relations have
an influential role in shaping our frame of life. Without relations, friendship
there is no life. Its just like a rainbow without color or any dessert without
sugar.
We should develop emotional skills in ourselves to make
and maintain our good relations. Good relations save us from emotionally breaking
in miserable situations. Develop features of kindness, gratitude, empathy and love
that will definitely make you internally sound and contented to life.
All what we have to do is to learn how we have to manage our
mindsets to stay happy and contented. Money cannot bring internal peace,
satisfaction and a strong mental health. We have to practice to make our minds
calm and relax, strive to utilize our all potentials and strengths in a
positive manner. Build self-esteem, enjoy the little deeds of kindness and
create new positive relations.
Let’s begin now with a small dedicated action that will
become our habits in future for a happy, positive and contended frame of life. π









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